Wed. August 20, 2014 ~Heather update~

Yesterday Heather had her second MRI to check the progression of her tumor. Today we met with her oncologist, Dr. Esbenshade, to discuss the results. He gave us bad news. He said that her tumor is presenting itself to be very aggressive. These are pictures taken from her first scan and yesterday's scan, You can see a "spot" about the size of a dime in the lower right area in the first picture and how in the second it has grown significantly. The third picture is just a big picture of them both pulled up side by side together, however the order is reversed with yesterdays scan on the left. I will have to figure out how to get a video on here of the whole thing.

                                              

We have an appointment with her Radiation Oncologist, Dr. Tenenholz, tomorrow to discuss the preparations for radiation therapy. We did not want to go this route, but with the aggressiveness of her tumor we are just giving it time to grow bigger and lowering her chances of long term survival. With that said, the plan is for her to receive 6 weeks of radiation (hopefully in Clarksville) and have a weekly appointment at Vanderbilt for a check-up. Then there will be a period of 6 weeks where the radiation has a residual effect and she receives no active treatment. In that time we plan to return to Oregon and allow Troy Morris (her biochemist) to attempt to find a good profile to match her biochemistry. So once we get definitive dates nailed down as far as when she will be done with her radiation, we will then start planning our stay up there. It could be 4 or more weeks. 

Heather is feeling good right now and has no symptoms. A definite praise. Please continue to keep her and our family in your prayers. Prayers for complete healing doing whatever is needed to be done to accomplish that. Pray for Eric and I as we make hard uncertain decisions. Pray for peace in our hearts. Also, through the Lord's providential planning I have been connected with a family that has a 15 month old daughter. She has had seizures since birth and is currently on life support at Vanderbilt. Please pray that their little girl finds the help she needs!! Her name is Alia. Thank you all!!!

Where to begin????

I should have done this a long time ago, but I haven't had the will power nor the free space in my brain to sit down long enough to get this started. I copied my first two messages from my other blog to this one so that I don't have to re-explain it all. So.... this blog will serve as Heather's central update center. Also as my outlet to release feelings and such that I need to get out along the way.......

An update on Heathers journey...8/10/14

I wanted to give everyone a more detailed update on what is going on right now with Heather. We(my mother, Heather, and myself) are currently in Oregon seeking the use of cannabis oil to  help Heather. We have read so many success stories with using it for brain cancer that we felt strongly that this is where we should go. We are working with a wonderful biochemist named Troy Morris. He is truly an amazing man. He will be working with Heather to try to find a strain that will actually help her. He plans to conference with her oncologists at Vandy tomorrow morning and we will go from there. For him to adequately conduct his research and try to pair her with the right strain he will need time. Possibly a month. So we will be here for possibly a month. We are praying he finds the correct strain on the first try!!! Once/if he finds a strain that will indeed help her, then we will go from there to figure out the in's and out's of returning home. A lot to process and plan. We were blessed to find an apt. that is fully furnished and will accomadate us while we are here. I am still in the process of figuring out a good solution to having a vehicle as I will need to return our rental on wed. Our landlord said he has some vehicles that he might could loan me, but we haven't talked in great detail about that yet. Please keep prayers coming for healing and guidance. Thank you.

Angel

July 10, 2014....the beginning of a different journey....Heather's journey.

So today is Thursday, So much has happened in the past few days. Something that no parent ever wishes to go through. On Tuesday I took Heather to the dr. because she was complaining of double vision. She's been having some bad headaches that seem to be well controlled with ibuprofen, so I wasn't too overly concerned with them. I never in my  wildest dreams expected to be where I am right now. The Dr. did a number of motor tests which Heather passed with ease. So at the conclusion, the double vision was still a mystery. She decided to be safe and order a CT scan to just check make sure it looked ok....

So we went home, ate lunch, and went up to the hospital to have the scan, then we were to go on back to the Dr. Office to discuss results.

.....the scan shows something, but they aren't sure exactly what. They refer us to Vanderbilt. By this time, I'm concerned... but still not fully grasping what's going on. They can't get us an appt. soon enough so we were instructed to go home, pack an overnight bag, and just drive to ER at Vanderbilt to be seen. I'm really concerned now, but again... not FULLY grasping what's happening. 

So we get a copy of the CT scan and we go home to pack a bag and to make arrangements for Jacob and Emma while we are gone. I had also called Eric and instructed him to get off of work at his regular time and explained to him what was going on.

Fast forward... We get to the ER and they admit us, and we stay overnight...scheduled to have a FULL MRI on the brain and spinal column done the next day which will be approx. 3 1/2 - 4 hours long. We weren't scheduled till 2:30, but apparently the child that was ahead of us had eaten something and was unable to have theirs, so Heather got to go at noon instead. 5 hours later the bring her back up and we wait to hear the results. 

The Dr.'s come in and explain that they haven't fully analyzed the scan, but that she does have a mass/tumor in left front temporal lobe. 

"I'm sorry....did they REALLY just say that my daughter, my beautiful Heather has a brain tumor????" This can't be. THIS CANNOT BE HAPPENING! I don't know how to process this. I DONT WANT TO PROCESS THIS!!

They continue to explain the oncology team(had to look that one up)... The CANCER team will look at her MRI in the morning and talk with us, and then they(neurology team) and the oncology team will meet and discuss what the best way is to go about getting a sample of it. Whether a spinal tap or to actually have surgery and remove a piece of it to be tested to determine whether it is cancerous or not. Then passed that, they will discuss treatment options and we will go from there. 

So.... That's where we are. It's now Thursday morning and we await the oncology team coming to speak with us. At this point, I understand the gravity, but I don't want to believe it. "How does this happen??" "How can we be HERE and they are talking about MY HEATHER???" "This just can't be happening. This can't be real!....How can this be real?!?"

So... Time to regroup, collect myself and be strong in front of my precious baby girl. She had a bit of a rough night last night. She is terribly sore from the MRI, (being completely still for over 4 hours) and she apparently bit her tongue a little on the tip while she was out which has been painful for her. Her blood pressure was a little high and her heart rate was elevated also. I still don't feel as though she has FULLY woke up from the anesthesia, but I know she's also naturally tired, so I'm gonna wait and see how she does this morning once she wakes up. 

We(Heather and I) were talking about all of this last night, and I told her she is in the best place and they are going to help her get better. We just got to trust God and pray. And she asked....

"But mom... what if God wants me to die?"  

I didn't know how to answer that. I've been asking myself the same question.

I told her that I believe in my heart that God isn't done using her and her amazing heart in His kingdom. That she is so special and her heart for special needs children is so beautiful. I told her that I could see her growing up and being a special needs teacher like Mrs. Melinda to which she gave me a big smile. She then said," I like the little kid that is next to me... He doesn't cry loud, just whimpers a little. I explained to her that I had observed in passing that it looked like maybe his face was swollen and that he was a little boy, toddler age. She said,"Mom, can we pray for him?"

"Absolutely baby, I am feeling God leading me to go pray with his parents". So we said a prayer for him and then I went next door and talked with his mom. And then we opened up the curtains between rooms so Heather could see him and she smiled and waved over to him and then I proceeded to pray for him and his family. He is 3 1/2 yrs. old. I think his name is Isaiah... I can't remember exactly now.. But he was born with spina bifida. He had brain surgery. One of many, and many more expected in his future. Please pray for him. I told heather later that maybe once they get everything sorted out and she feels up to it, maybe we could go around the hospital and let her visit some of the children that are here and play with them. She smiled real big and I just held her hand as she tried to drift off to sleep.

I am still in disbelief, shock...I don't even know what I am right now. Every fearful thought I have, God is there to reassure me. I know He is in control. I have peace in that, but honestly, I fear His will. What if  He decides to take her home?

A thought I cannot even bear to think about right now. I just have to continue to pray for healing! I know there are many people that are interceding for my baby girl right now and I am grateful beyond words. Please keep them coming. I don't know how often I will post on here... I have thought about starting a different blog for Heather and this journey she is embarking on. I don't know if she would even be interested in having/writing one.. But I think I'll ask. I'm not sure if I can make a new one from my phone or not, but I'll try if she wants to do that. 

I'll continue to post what I know, when I know to fb. We covet your prayers. 

Angel